Saturday, February 6, 2010

??control??

what if u like the guy to be a little controlling in some areas, but he's not really the controlling type??control??
push him... meaning push him mentally to be a man... but too much... he could just poof...??control??
He will never be until he gets older or he will not be controling type. That's ok because maybe you are more so that way.
tell him how you feel, but maybe if your i a fresh relationship he can't act that way in fear that you will leave him. But you don't need a controlling man, i think you mean a man who is confident and knows what he wants and has strong opinions.
well just let him be like that., you like him that wway., then accept it., he will change if he wants to., just dont push him that much.,
You should give try, and , and go from there
i kno how you feel. tell him straight up that u need a man, lollzzzz. jk, but honesty is the best policy
Don't force him to do something that's not in his character.
You don't want a guy to be controlling in any area of your life.





Giving control to a guy is never, ever cute.





If you give an inch, eventually, they'll take a yard.
Oh, tell him about your fantasies and if he wont fulfill them, he aint right for you sweetie.
My husband can sometimes be pushy but almost always time proved that he was justified and in doing so.He has prevented some sticky situations and solved other problems by a little gentle and sometimes not so gentle 'pushing', that's why I have grown to trust his judgment and motives.
slap him around a bit and tell him what you want . i f he cant deliver, bounce him out. or if you love him then just deal.
Why do you want to be controlled? I think what you mean is you want him to be Little more aggressive. I had a boyfriend like that who was real passive and he turned out to be REAL boring!!
scold him,,,,
well it looks like your dating your wrong type then!! If it is just in certain aspects, tell him you would like for him to take charge in that way. If it is more of a pushover situation this may not be able to be fixed. You can't MAKE someone change aspects of their personality. But you CAN try. And you can't expect them to take charge over roles that they don't feel comfortable being in that role.

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